@Gigi@kolektiva.social
At a certain point you'd think someone would question the wisdom of pointing out that all kinds of people from all walks of life detest them.
Do you really want to be telling people that the problem might be you?
But no.
That's not how narcissists brains work.
Can't wait to hear how this works into the grand unifying theory. 
(Also, bonus points for pretending they were interested in her not the 6' 300lb goon. Much like the 
that wasn't as advertised. There really needs to be a term for this. I'll bet there is.)
Good lordt:
Narcissists frequently co-opt other people's stories, using them to elevate their own image or manipulate situations. This behavior can involve taking credit for others' accomplishments, exaggerating their involvement in shared experiences, or even fabricating stories entirely to make themselves appear more interesting or important. This tactic is a form of emotional manipulation and control, designed to reinforce the narcissist's inflated sense of self-importance and undermine the achievements or experiences of others.
Here's a breakdown of how narcissists co-opt stories:
Taking credit for others' work:
A narcissist might present a project they contributed little to as their own creation, or claim credit for a team's success while minimizing the contributions of others.
Exaggerating their role:
They might embellish their involvement in an event, inflating their significance or impact on the situation.
Fabricating stories:
In some cases, narcissists might create entirely new narratives, often casting themselves in a heroic or victimized light, to gain sympathy or admiration.
Using others' stories for gain:
They might share a personal story they heard from someone else, but twist it to make themselves the protagonist or to elicit a desired reaction. 
Why do narcissists do this?
Need for validation:
Narcissists have a fragile ego and crave external validation. Co-opting stories provides a way to boost their self-esteem and feel superior.
Control and manipulation:
By controlling the narrative [cough], they can manipulate how others perceive them and influence their interactions.
Lack of empathy:
Narcissists often lack empathy, making it difficult for them to understand or care about the impact their actions have on others.
How to recognize this behavior:
Pay attention to inconsistencies:
If someone's story changes or if their account of events doesn't align with other accounts, it could be a red flag.
Notice if they consistently take credit:
Be aware of individuals who frequently claim credit for others' work or exaggerate their contributions.
Trust your instincts:
If something feels off or manipulative, it's important to trust your intuition.
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As usual, nothing new or unique about it.
