Hi to all my new followers, I'm very sorry but I'm still having an existential crisis here about the supposed existence of "The Mastodon Way of Threading Posts" in which one is supposedly supposed to manually change the Privacy Status on every post (Listed, then Unlisted) to avoid "Spamming Timelines (tm)".
This might seem like a little thing.
But it's one in a number of weird UX hassles and/or weird street-level workaround protocols that, for me, just has finally hit my personal limit.
I'm very sorry to Eugen and all the development team at Mastodon who have certainly put in a lot of time and energy.
But stuff like this.... it just breaks me.
I can't use Mastodon, as a product, or as a social network, if I'm now aware that there's an entire invisible ecosystem of jury-rigged usage protocols that have somehow become "unofficial official etiquette" but are actually really difficult for humans to do.
It's weird that THIS is what's pushing me off this whole network! But it is.